275 Flirty Texts for Him to Think About You All Day

From sweet to spicy flirty texts for him, here’s your go-to list for every mood.

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Sometimes, you don’t need a grand gesture — just a perfectly timed text that makes his mind wander straight to you.

Whether you’re in the talking stage, dating, or deep into your relationship, the right words can turn a simple “hey” into something unforgettable.

If you’ve been wondering what to text him to make him smile, blush, or crave your next message, here’s your go-to list of 275 flirty texts for him — playful, romantic, and downright irresistible.

Good Morning Flirty Texts for Him

Mornings hit differently when your first message comes from someone who makes you blush. A sweet or suggestive text before he’s had his coffee can set the tone for his whole day.

1. Morning, handsome. I hope your day starts as good as you look.
2. I woke up smiling. You were in my dream again.
3. The sun’s up, but you’re still the hottest thing in my world.
4. Just thinking how unfair it is that I’m not waking up next to you.
5. Coffee first, then thoughts of you. Actually… never mind.
6. If I could teleport, I’d be delivering your morning kiss right now.
7. My alarm didn’t wake me. Your name did.
8. I hope you slept well — because I didn’t, thanks to you running through my head.
9. Good morning to the guy who makes texting before 9 AM totally worth it.
10. You in my morning thoughts? Always.
11. Morning, trouble. I had the best dream and I’m blaming you for it.
12. Just wanted to remind you that someone woke up thinking about your lips.
13. I don’t need caffeine when I’ve got you on my mind.
14. Wish I could press snooze on life and stay in that dream where you were next to me.
15. You’re the reason I wake up smiling… and slightly distracted.
16. Good morning to the man who makes ordinary days feel a little dangerous.
17. You’re my favorite kind of morning motivation.
18. Tell your mirror I said “lucky thing” — it gets to see you first.
19. I woke up with a craving that no breakfast can fix.
20. Just checking if you’re still as irresistible as you were last night (spoiler: you are).
21. My morning playlist? You. Just you.
22. I was going to say “good morning,” but “come back to bed” feels more accurate.
23. I’d trade this blanket for your arms any day.
24. If I text you first thing every day, don’t blame me — you started it by being addictive.
25. Hope your morning’s good… but not as good as it’d be if I were there.

Funny & Flirty Text Messages to Make Him Laugh

Humor is its own kind of attraction. These messages blend with a wink, keeping the energy playful while still making your interest clear.

1. I was going to wait for you to text first… but patience isn’t my strength.
2. I saw someone today who reminded me of you. Then I realized it was my reflection.
3. You owe me a coffee. You spilled into my thoughts and messed with my focus.
4. I’d say I miss you, but then I’d have to admit it.
5. My phone’s battery lasts longer when you text back faster — science.
6. You must be trouble. I like trouble.
7. You popped into my head. I’ll let you guess what you were doing there.
8. I’ve been thinking about you all day. Should I keep going?
9. I just saw something that reminded me of you… me.
10. I just told my pillow about you. It’s jealous now.
11. Are you free tonight, or should I keep pretending to be chill?
12. You feel like home and chaos in one.
13. I keep replaying that look you gave me — rude.
14. I was being productive… then your face showed up in my mind and ruined everything.
15. Do you ever get tired of being this attractive, or is it a full-time job?
16. My phone’s acting weird — every time you text, it heats up.
17. I tried to ignore you today. My heart filed a complaint.
18. Just checked the weather: 100% chance of me thinking about you.
19. I’m not trying to fall, but you’re not helping.
20. There’s something about you I can’t shake — not that I want to.
21. I’m convinced your texts have caffeine. I get a little rush every time.
22. I wish I could bottle how I feel when I see your name pop up.
23. Every time you don’t text back, an angel loses its wings.
24. What’s hotter than coffee at noon? You.
25. I’m practicing my flirting. Lucky for you, you’re the test subject.

Playful Flirty Text Messages to Start the Conversation

Sometimes you just want to break the ice — no agenda, just charm. These flirty texts are light, teasing, and perfect when you want to start something fun without trying too hard.

1. I was just thinking… your name looks really good on my screen.
2. I’m not bored, just waiting for your text to fix that.
3. Every time my phone buzzes, I hope it’s you.
4. Is it bad that I smile at your messages like a teenager.
5. You’re officially my favorite notification.
6. You crossed my mind… again.
7. Somehow, even quiet moments feel louder when I think of you.
8. Can’t tell if I’m smiling at my screen or at you.
9. I don’t know why, but I trust you — that’s rare.
10. You’re becoming my favorite routine.
11. Texting you feels like a soft secret.
12. I like this — whatever “this” is.
13. You’ve officially ruined my “focus” streak. Hope you’re proud.
14. I caught myself smiling for no reason… then I remembered you exist.
15. You’re dangerously close to becoming my favorite part of the day.
16. My phone feels empty when your name isn’t on the screen.
17. I was going to be mysterious today, but then you texted and I forgot how.
18. Every time I talk to you, the world slows down a bit.
19. You’re my favorite kind of distraction.
20. So when are we upgrading from texting to seeing each other?
21. I like the way your name looks next to my heart emoji.
22. I had a serious thought… you should be here.
23. My day’s 30% coffee and 70% thinking about you.
24. I bet you’re grinning right now.
25. You + me + one evening = better than any movie plot.

Sweet Midday & After-Work Flirty Texts for Him

A little mid-day ping can turn an ordinary day into something worth anticipating. Whether he’s stuck in traffic or winding down from meetings, these are the perfect reminders that you’re thinking of him.

1. You’re the best distraction from work.
2. Lunch break? Come steal a bite… or a kiss.
3. You’re the reason I keep biting my lip.
4. My productivity dropped 80% since I started thinking about you.
5. Every time my phone buzzes, my heart skips.
6. Just saying hi, but also hoping it leads to plans later.
7. I’m halfway through my day, and you’re all over my mind.
8. Reminder: someone out there (me) finds you irresistible.
9. The day feels longer without your texts.
10. How’s your day going, besides missing me?
11. Survived the day. Reward: you.
12. I hope your evening plans include me.
13. Long day? I know a few ways to help you relax.
14. I saved my best smiles for when I see you.
15. What’s more satisfying than finishing work? Flirting with you.
16. Let’s skip the small talk and plan something fun.
17. If I show up with dinner, will you handle dessert?
18. You deserve a drink. I’ll make it two — one for me, one for you.
19. The only meeting I want right now is face-to-face with you.
20. Just wrapped up work — now I need a little you to unwind.
21. My brain’s clocking out, but my thoughts about you? Overtime.
22. You, me, takeout, and zero responsibilities. How’s that for an evening plan?
23. The best part of my day hasn’t happened yet. It starts when I see your name pop up.
24. I’m already changing into something more comfortable.
25. Ready for round two of the day — you and me.

Complimentary & Romantic Flirty Texts for Him

Flirting isn’t always about innuendo. Sometimes, it’s about admiration. These lines mix soft compliments with just enough heat to make him feel seen and wanted.

1. I like how you make everything feel easy — even falling for you.
2. Talking to you feels like the start of something really good.
3. I didn’t plan to like you this much. Oops.
4. You’re quickly becoming my favorite thought of the day.
5. I’ve met nice people before, but none who make me blush this much.
6. You’re my current distraction and I’m not even mad about it.
7. Every time I think I’ve figured you out, you surprise me.
8. I like who I am when I’m talking to you.
9. You’re hot… but I’m still funnier.
10. You’re so confident. It’s annoying how much I like it.
11. You’re dangerously close to becoming my weakness.
12. I like your style — it’s very “distracting.”
13. Your voice should come with a warning label.
14. I’d say you’re out of my league, but clearly you have good taste.
15. I don’t want to overthink it — I just really, really like you.
16. You make it hard to keep my cool.
17. You’re the reason I smile at random times of the day.
18. Every time I talk to you, I forget what I was stressed about.
19. I never knew texting someone could feel this good.
20. My heart literally speeds up when your name pops up.
21. You make flirting feel effortless.
22. I could get used to this — you and me, endless banter.
23. You’re the full package. Guess I’m lucky the delivery was free.
24. I’d compliment you more, but I don’t want to inflate your ego.
25. You’re trouble wrapped in charm.

Flirty Pick-Up Lines That Actually Work

Cheesy can be charming when you deliver it with confidence. These pick-up lines are bold, flirty, and guaranteed to earn at least a grin (and probably a flirt back).

1. Are you a campfire? Because you’re hot and I want s’more.
2. I must be a snowflake, because I’ve fallen for you.
3. If flirting were a sport, you’d be my toughest competition.
4. Are you a magician? Because every time I look at you, everything else disappears.
5. You must be tired — you’ve been running through my mind all day.
6. Are you flirting back or just naturally this charming?
7. I think you dropped something — my jaw.
8. I was going to wait for fate, but my DMs felt faster.
9. If I were a cat, I’d spend all nine lives with you.
10. You must be a time traveler, because I see you in my future.
11. I’m not saying I’m obsessed, but my phone might be.
12. You’re officially my favorite daydream.
13. Are you Wi-Fi? Because I’m feeling a strong connection.
14. I was today years old when I realized perfection has a name — yours.
15. If kisses were snowflakes, I’d send you a blizzard.
16. You must be made of copper and tellurium — because you’re Cu-Te.
17. I don’t need Google anymore. I already found what I’ve been searching for.
18. You’ve got a map? Because I just got lost in your messages.
19. I want to be the reason you stay up too late tonight.
20. I was going to wait to text you, but patience isn’t my strength.
21. You’re like fine wine — dangerously addictive.
22. If being sexy were a crime, you’d be serving a life sentence.
23. I’m not falling — I’m already there.
24. Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got “fine” written all over you.
25. I don’t usually flirt first, but you’re an exception worth breaking rules for.

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Good Night Flirty Texts to Send to Him Before Bed

There’s something intimate about being the last person he hears from before falling asleep. These messages are sweet, sultry, and perfect for ending the night on your terms.

1. Sweet dreams. If I’m in them, make them extra sweet.
2. I’m about to sleep — but first, thinking about how good your arms would feel right now.
3. Counting sheep doesn’t work… counting the ways I like you might.
4. Don’t let your bed get too comfy without me in it.
5. Just checking if I’m the last thing on your mind tonight.
6. You should probably dream about me. It’s only fair.
7. Nighttime feels a little too quiet without your texts.
8. I’m officially blaming you for my lack of sleep.
9. Imagine me whispering your name right now.
10. I’m in bed… but I’m not sleeping.
11. Thinking of the last time we touched — that memory should be illegal.
12. If dreams come true, I’ll see you in a few minutes.
13. I’d tell you “sweet dreams,” but I plan to make them a little wild.
14. My pillow’s jealous — it knows I’d rather be holding you.
15. You should know… I look cutest right before bed. Just saying.
16. I hope your bed’s as soft as my thoughts about you.
17. If I fall asleep smiling, it’s because you’re the reason.
18. The night’s quiet, but my mind’s busy replaying you.
19. I don’t need a bedtime story — your voice would do.
20. Sleep tight… unless you’d rather stay up thinking about me too.
21. I wish you were here — my blanket’s doing a terrible job.
22. Warning: I might dream about kissing you again.
23. I’d text “good night,” but it doesn’t feel right without you next to me.
24. My bed feels too big and my thoughts too full — guess who’s to blame?
25. If I can’t be in your arms, at least I can be in your head.

Hot Flirty Texts to Get Him in the Mood

When the chemistry’s already crackling, words can do a lot of heavy lifting. These lines walk the fine line between bold and irresistible, designed to turn his imagination on.

1. Turn the temperature up — but keep it tasteful and confident.
2. I can’t focus… the thoughts of you keep doing things to me.
3. Let’s skip the flirting and go straight to the kissing.
4. I’m not good at pretending I don’t want you.
5. I dare you to make the next move.
6. There’s no competition — you already win.
7. I could list 100 things I like about you, but I’d rather show you.
8. Don’t act innocent — you know exactly what you’re doing to me.
9. What are you wearing? (Just checking if I should be jealous.)
10. I can’t tell if I want to kiss you or tease you more.
11. You’ve officially made self-control feel overrated.
12. My bed feels too big tonight.
13. You should be here helping me “sleep.”
14. I just remembered how good you smell. Now I can’t stop thinking about it.
15. I’m not saying I’m in the mood… but if you texted right, I could be.
16. You make me want to misbehave a little.
17. If you were here, I’d show you exactly what I mean when I say I miss you.
18. I just found your shirt from last time. Should I wear it or return it personally?
19. I have a few ideas for how to ruin your concentration.
20. I wish you were here to finish what I’m thinking.
21. What would you do if I showed up at your place right now?
22. I’d say goodnight, but that’s not what I have in mind.
23. My hands are busy… but they’d rather be on you.
24. If teasing were a language, I’d be fluent — and you’d be my favorite lesson.
25. I’m not sure what’s more tempting — my thoughts or the idea of you in them.

Fun & Spicy Challenge Flirty Text Messages

Games aren’t just for kids. A little dare, a truth question, or a teasing challenge can build playful tension fast. These texts make flirting feel like foreplay.

1. Truth or dare — but only if you’re brave.
2. Compliment battle: first to run out loses.
3. Guess what I’m thinking. Hint: it involves you.
4. Let’s play “would you rather” — I’ll start: kiss or cuddle?
5. I bet you can’t go one hour without thinking of me.
6. Want to make a deal? Winner gets a kiss.
7. Describe me in three words — go.
8. I dare you to flirt better than me.
9. Text me one thing you’ve always wanted to try.
10. You start — sweet or spicy?
11. Let’s play 21 questions — but make it dangerous.
12. I dare you to send your most flirty emoji combo.
13. If I win this game, I get a date. If you win… you still get me.
14. Describe your dream night — I’ll tell you if I’m in it.
15. Let’s see how bold you really are — truth or double dare?
16. I challenge you to make me blush through text. Good luck.
17. Send me a song that feels like us, I’ll rate it.
18. Pick a number between 1 and 10, I’ll tell you what kind of kiss you just won.
19. Let’s play “fill in the blank”: I can’t stop thinking about _____.
20. I dare you to tell me your most harmless dirty thought.
21. If we were in the same room right now… what would happen first?
22. I bet I can make you flustered in one text — ready to test it?
23. Loser of this game owes the winner a massage.
24. Finish this sentence: You’d look best with me ____.
25. I’ll tell you a secret if you earn it — your move.

Closing the Distance Flirty Texts

For long-distance couples or anyone who just misses their person, these texts bridge the gap. A little longing, a little heat — and the reminder that distance is only temporary.

1. Let’s stop talking about “someday.” Let’s pick a date.
2. I’m counting down the minutes until I get to see you.
3. Just imagine — no more screens between us.
4. I already know our reunion hug will last too long.
5. I can’t wait to kiss you instead of my phone.
6. Every mile between us is just a build-up.
7. You’re going to owe me so many kisses when we meet.
8. My next trip has your name all over it.
9. I want to memorize the sound of your laugh in person.
10. Until then — text me something worth dreaming about.
11. I keep imagining how your hand will feel in mine — over and over.
12. Every text just makes me want the real thing more.
13. Photos help, but I’m ready for the 3D version of you.
14. You’re the best reason I’ve ever had to stare at a calendar.
15. I swear my pillow is tired of pretending to be you.
16. The next time I see you, I’m not letting go easily.
17. I’m already planning what I’ll wear when we finally meet — spoiler: not much.
18. Distance can’t dull this. It’s just turning up the heat.
19. You’re my favorite “almost here.”
20. I can’t decide what I’ll do first when I see you — hug, kiss, or just stare.
21. Every “good night” text feels like a promise.
22. If missing you counted as cardio, I’d be in the best shape of my life.
23. You make waiting feel like wanting.
24. One more sleep closer to you — that’s how I measure time now.
25. Our reunion should come with a warning label: highly flammable.

Romantic Weekend Flirty Text Messages

Weekends are made for slow mornings, lazy afternoons, and spontaneous plans. Use these texts to nudge him toward you — whether that means brunch or something a little less innocent.

1. Weekend forecast: 100% chance of me thinking about you.
2. What’s the plan, or should I make one that includes us?
3. If I say I’m bored, that’s your cue.
4. You’re my favorite Saturday morning thought.
5. Let’s turn this lazy day into something worth remembering.
6. You + me + zero responsibilities = perfect.
7. How about brunch that turns into a day date?
8. Sundays are made for sleeping in — preferably next to you.
9. I’m trying to decide what to wear for our weekend mischief.
10. Cancel your plans. I just made better ones.
11. I vote we make “us” the main event this weekend.
12. Something tells me the weekend would feel better with you in it.
13. I’ve got snacks, a playlist, and a mood — missing one thing: you.
14. If weekends were made for bad decisions, I hope you’re mine.
15. Woke up with weekend energy… and thoughts of you. Coincidence?
16. Let’s make some memories that’ll ruin our Monday focus.
17. You, me, sunlight, and no alarms — sounds like a plan.
18. My weekend’s wide open. Care to fix that?
19. I could be productive… or I could text you until we make plans.
20. What’s your ideal Saturday? Wait — let me guess, it includes me.
21. Thinking of spending the day doing nothing — except maybe you.
22. If I show up with coffee and a smile, will that count as a date?
23. I feel like trouble this weekend. You free to enable me?
24. You make staying in sound just as good as going out.
25. Let’s give the weekend something to gossip about.

Wrap-Up: Best Flirty Texts for Him

At the end of the day, the best flirty text messages are about connection. That little rush you both feel when your phone lights up with his name, or the smile that lingers after something playful and unexpected.

Whether you’re sending a cute good morning, a teasing midday message, or something hot enough to keep him up at night, remember this: flirting is an art. It’s confidence with a wink, desire wrapped in charm, and emotion that doesn’t need a filter.

Use these flirty texts to him to spark laughter, deepen your bond, or fan the flames. So go ahead. Hit send. You might just make his whole day (or night).